What a week it has been for all. As we lengthen our prayers list, could I ask for one? I received a heart-wrenching email from Tristan’s school. He lives 3 hours away. If feels like I sent my giant toddler off to college. The email sent said home visitation would be postponed for two weeks then re-evaluated due to Covid-19. School is canceled. Community outings are canceled.
It can be a challenge to stay engaged with my son when he has limited interests and prefers to be alone. However, I have found if I take the time to study what captures his attention, then I can enter his world.
I choose to work outside the home for a few reasons. On the outside it appears raising a special needs son’s has enough challenges for each day. That is true. However, let me share some thoughts. Continue reading
A month after Tristan was placed in our family, we had early intervention therapists come to our home. Susan was Tristan’s developmental therapist. She came to our home weekly for two years. Susan and I spent a lot of time together. I clearly remember one of our chats. She would gently encourage me by saying, “ALL children need to do chores. A child needs to feel like part of the family. Special needs children must do chores.”
I like to get a lot accomplished each day. At times, I do not feel like I accomplish very much. Sometimes a to do lists can feel overwhelming. This simple trick solves both challenges. I decided to make a list of all the things I did get done. A to done list.
If you are going to make a “To Do List” then make sure you also make a “TO DONE LIST.” You will be surprised at how much you really do accomplish!
The Practical Side of Autism 